Some Great Posts Around the Blogosphere

October 28, 2009

The entries in my Google Reader this morning are particularly well-written and insightful.  Check these out:

Five Characteristics of Weak Leaders by Michael Hyatt.  Excellent lessons from the Civil War.  An absolute must-read if you are in any kind of leadership role.

Trust is not a Two-Way Street by Anne Jackson.  A very thought-provoking look at how love and trust come into play when we are mistreated by others.

Fearlessness by Mark Batterson.  Challenging post on facing our fears.

Great stuff here!  Enjoy!


Chuck Swindoll’s Life and Leadership Lessons

October 10, 2009

This comes from Mark Batterson.  Chuck Swindoll shared these lessons at Catalyst ‘09:

  1. It’s lonely to lead
  2. It’s dangerous to succeed
  3. It’s hardest at home
  4. It’s essential to be real
  5. It’s painful to obey
  6. Brokenness and failure are necessary
  7. My attitude is more important than my actions
  8. Integrity eclipse image
  9. God’s way is always better than my way
  10. Christlikeness begins and ends with humility

Our Steps are Ordered of the Lord

October 5, 2009

I am continually amazed at both how the Lord orders our steps and how He teaches us along the way.

Today I was supposed to be in Macedonia with our MAPS team from New Life to minister with a missionary for a week.  The night before we were scheduled to leave, we discovered an issue with one of team members’ passport.  Long story short, it didn’t work out for us to make the trip at this time.

Here’s the thing:  Everyone on the team had a peace about.  Our families had a peace about it.  There is a strong sense that this is right and that we were not supposed to go right now.

Why?  I don’t know.  But God knows.

Why then, if the Lord was going to slam the door shut at the last minute, did He let us go through all of the preparation and fight the battles necessary to make the trip?

I don’t know.  But God knows.

And I do have a clue about it, at least for my part.  Through a series of events and trends, a significant financial need arose the week before we were to make the trip.  It was severe enough that I was very concerned, and getting pretty upset.

So what happened?  Well, without going into details, the Lord spoke through a series of experiences and encounters to show me that I was not walking by faith regarding His provision.  Once I came to that realization, I repented and found a good measure of peace.  And then the next day, God supernaturally met the financial need.

I learned something about my own heart and about God’s provision, all in one whack.

Sometimes we are too consumed with what is happening to us and around us, and we miss what God is wanting to do IN us.

There’s a great line in the first Matrix movie (the only installment of the trilogy worth watching, by the way), where Neo is coming to realize that he is “The One,” even though the Oracle had indirectly led him to believe that he was not.  Morpheus says to him, “There is a difference between knowing the Path and walking the Path.”

We don’t always know what path we are on, and we sometimes are on a different path than we believe.  But this I know:  When we commit our lives to Jesus Christ, He orders our steps and directs our paths.

I’m taking great comfort in that today.

(By the way, were were able to keep our plane tickets and are planning to make the trip next spring.  So, now we get to take more people!)


This Little Piggy…

September 21, 2009

Would you like to hear about my interesting day?  You would?  Thanks.

I spent a few hours at the doctor’s office today after hitting my little toe on the hearth of our fireplace while walking through the house the morning.

The verdict:  Yep.  Fractured and dislocated.

Fortunately, the doctor said that it will still be okay for me to make the trip to Macedonia next week.

I’ve been trying to come up with the most “manly” version of my story possible.  After all, stubbing my toe on the hearth doesn’t really invoke images of Rambo, does it?  Well, the best I can come up with is that my injury is “the result of a high velocity collision with a sheet of limestone.”  It’s true, and it sounds a little better than “this little piggy hit the fireplace.”

The doctor I saw today was excellent.  He is a Christian, and he prayed for me before we left, and even prayed over our trip to Macedonia.

At any rate, here is a picture of the x-ray.  You can see the fracture running diagonally from left to right down the length of the bone.

My aching toe

Please keep me in your prayers for the next few days as I recover.


Book Review: Fearless by Max Lucado

September 8, 2009

_200_350_Book.72.coverMax Lucado paints pictures with words.

What he writes, the reader experiences.  His books do not merely inform, but rather they transport the reader into the story so that he or she shares a moment of discovery or insight with the author.

So it is with Max’s new release, Fearless:  Imagine Your Life without Fear.  Many common fears are explored.  From the fear of personal sorrow and pain to the fear of global calamity, Max carries the reader through each experience as only he can, then pulls the curtain back unveiling God’s perspective on our insecurities.

As with Lucado’s other writings, there is not a lot of “how-to’s” and “three step plans” here.  He does not give us a formula to eliminate fear in our lives.  Instead, Max teaches us in the same manner as Jesus: through the power of story.  A life lesson embedded in a common experience.  Insight from incident.  Revelation from observation.  Rather than techniques for dealing with fear, Max delivers us to God’s embrace so that we can hear the reassuring whisper of the Holy Spirit: “Do not be afraid.”

I encourage you to pick up a copy of Fearless.  Let Max paint you a picture of your life without fear.


A21 Campaign

September 5, 2009

I just watched a message by Christine Caine in which she described the A21 Campaign.  This is a ministry to girls who are victims of the sex slave trade.  It’s a huge deal, and it has completely arrested me emotionally.  Check out this video:


A “Mile” Stone Reached at Last

September 3, 2009

I am now at the four-month mark in my journey toward physical fitness.  My weight loss has stalled a bit, but I’m working to get at least another ten pounds off in the next few months.  I’m still making progress.  In fact, today I achieved one of my goals.

I ran a mile.

Now that may not seem like much to you.  Yeah, I know.  You’ve been able to run a mile since high school.  Well, I’ve been able to consume an entire package of Cheetos in one sitting since high school.  So there.  Athletic prowess has never been one of my strengths.  That mile marker has always loomed over my vision as evidence of my inability to achieve.

Until today.

The thing is, I wasn’t planning on running a mile today.  I didn’t think I had worked up to that capacity yet.  But as I was working out this morning with a couple of friends (one of whom happens to be a trainer), I mentioned that I was still working toward that goal.

His response:  ”You can run a mile right now.”

I asked, “You really think so?”

“I know so,” he said.  ”In fact, I’ll take you over to the subdivision across from the gym when we’re done and run a mile with you today.”

The moment of truth.  Sink or swim.  Run or walk.  Or crawl.

“Okay.”

So we drove around the subdivision and marked a mile.  And then we ran.  And ran.  And ran.

I wanted to stop so many times.  I thought I would suffocate more than once.  But my friend kept urging me on.  ”Focus on your breathing.  Keep your eyes on an object in the distance.  Don’t stop.  Keep going.  You’re almost there.”  Not only would he not let me stop, he made me sprint the last tenth of the mile.

And we did it.  I ran a mile for the first time in my life on a day when I did not think I had it in me.

Three quick observations:

  1. We can accomplish more than we believe possible.
  2. We need others to encourage us and even push us when we are surrendering to our self-imposed limitations.
  3. Our ability to excel depends heavily upon our focus.  Concentrate on the pain and discomfort, and that’s all we will see.  Focus on the horizon and what it takes to get there, and we’ll go further than we could have imagined.

What milestones do you believe are still out of reach?  Who can you bring alongside you to help you reach the next level?


Meeting Rick Warren

August 19, 2009

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General Council ‘09 was a wonderful experience in so many ways.  One of the highlights for me was the opportunity meet Rick Warren, pastor of Saddleback Church and author of The Purpose-Driven Life.

I have to say, he is one of the most approachable and affirming people I have ever met.  Moreover, his presentation to our ministers Friday morning was absolutely phenomenal.  You can watch the session here.

In a classic “D’oh!” moment, Rick asked me for my business card, and I realized that I was completely out.  Guess I won’t be invited to the next community forum after all….


Life Lessons from Physical Training

August 1, 2009

This week marks a milestone for me.  I have officially completed three months working with a physical trainer.  One of my goals for this year has been to lose thirty pounds and to run a mile.  I’m not there yet, but I am well on my way.  Here are the stats so far:

  • I’ve lost about 15 pounds.  But when you factor in that I’ve gained about eight pounds of muscle (according to my trainer), I’ve actually lost over 20 pounds of fat.
  • I’ve lost about three inches so far in my waist.  The kakis I got for Christmas that were comfortably tight now have sort an “M.C. Hammer pants” effect in how they hang off of my legs.

Here’s a picture from last Wednesday’s Missionette’s program at church.  You can see how my clothes are hanging off of me.

Missionettes Program

(By the way, that’s my older daughter Elizabeth in the white dress.  She achieved “Honor Star” last week.  If you are not familiar with Missionettes and Royal Rangers, that is basically the equivalent of becoming an Eagle Scout in the Boy Scouts.  Yay, Lizi!)

Anyway, my training has involved both exercise and nutrition, and it has not been easy.  Props to my trainer, Romen, for his patience and persistence with me!  But not only have I learned about fitness, this experience has highlighted some other life truths:

  • Big goals are achieved in small, daily decisions.  Fish instead of cheeseburger, water instead of Coke.  Treadmill instead of recliner.  Each of these choices can be difficult, and the results are often not readily evident.  Over time, however, things begin to change for the better.
  • We never really “arrive.” I’ve completed my three-month program, but I still have a little ways to go before reaching my goal for the year.  But even when I get there (and I WILL get there!) that does not mean I can quit the gym and head back to my favorite Chinese restaurant on a daily basis.  I will have to continue the habits that led me to better health, and I will undoubtedly want to fine tune in certain areas.
  • We benefit others when we take care of ourselves.  My wife has also lost weight as she has adapted to my nutrition requirements.  Others have been inspired to get in shape as they have watched my success thus far.  When we achieve our goals, we help others to realize they can reach theirs, as well.  Success is a great motivator.
  • There is no shortcut for hard work.  I’ve wanted to try the fad diets and whatever pill I could pop to lose weight.  Fortunately, my wise and beautiful wife repeatedly talked me out of it.  Now, in retrospect, I would not take anything for the experience of nearly puking my guts up during my first workout and then sticking with it until I could make it through a whole workout and still function the rest of the day.
  • Growth is painful.  This experience has been very difficult physically.  I have ached and hurt like never before.  It has become a part of life over the past three months.  But the results have been worth it.  And, oddly enough, the pain feels good after a while because I recognize what is happening when my muscles ache.  An aversion to pain will keep us from growing.

What goals do you want to achieve?  What’s keeping you from going after them?  Make a decision today to move toward those goals.  Start with the small things.  Small things, done every day, lead to big things.

You CAN achieve your goals!


What God Does With His Power

June 23, 2009

God is all-powerful.  That’s a basic tenant of Christian theology.  His power is unlimited, immeasurable, and unyielding.  So the question then is raised, “What do you do what all of that power?”

In human terms, power can lead to corruption.  The cliche rings true;  ”Power corrupts.  Absolute power can corrupt absolutely.”  But perhaps power itself isn’t responsible for the ensuing corruption.  Rather, could it be that power only reveals hidden corruption that already dwells within our own hearts?  Could it be that power simply gives a voice that which is already there?

If this is the case, then it is fair to say that if you want to see a person’s true character, place him or her in a position of power.  Release the safeties and unshackle the hands.  What you see will be the real person.

So again, if God is all-powerful, what does He do with said power?  I came across this verse last week:

“A father to the fatherless, a defender of widows, is God in his holy dwelling” (Psalm 68:5 NIV).

God is in his holy dwelling.  That’s a position of power.  From that seat, the universe is His.  Any wish or desire He can fathom is available to Him with a simply command.  And God uses that power to be a father to the fatherless.  He uses that power to defend the widow.

Whoa.

With all the resources of divinity at his disposal, he chooses  to affirm, embrace, love, and defend those who are broken and in need.  Why?  Because at the core of His essence, that is who God is.  His absolute power reveals His absolute love.

Now, if I may state the more-than-obvious, you are not God.  Your power is not absolute, unlimited, or infinite.  But you do have some power.  You have a certain cache of resources and a circle of influence in which to invest them.  What are you doing with your power?

Let me ask it another way.  Who are you?  Whatever you are doing with your power right now reflects who you are on the inside.  Your heart is revealed in your actions.  Does your heart reflect God’s?  Do you use your power to help those who are powerless?  Or does your power give voice to a heart that is selfish, cold, and uncaring?

May we reflect God’s glory by using our power to minister to the fatherless, the widow, and those who are in need of a divine touch.  May we be the hands God uses to reveal His absolute love.